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My dear Christian brothers and sisters,

Are you losing hope in a loveless marriage, slowly going down with your ship? Are you ready to grab a lifeline to secure a trusting, fun, loving, intimate marriage that is deeper and stronger than ever?

I have been where you are, and have felt like you feel. I know there are some deep cuts in your marriage, in your partner, in you. Things were said and done that cannot be erased. Trust is broken. Communication is either brief, cold, and distant, or drawn-out, explosive, and hurtful. It’s destroying your heart to stay in a broken relationship. And it would destroy your heart to break up your family. You want to heal your marriage, but you don’t know how. Or if it’s even possible.

Darlings, take a deep breath (truly, I invite you). It is possible to heal YOUR marriage. 

I created the 12-week relationship revival bootcamp to help you create understanding, trust, love, kindness, intimacy, and fun in your marriage. It will help you take the thoughts captive that are damaging your relationship (Philippians 4:8); speak and act with integrity instead of being controlled by emotions (Proverbs 18:21); and find the voice of wisdom (Proverbs 1:33).

WORK ON YOU: I use the results of groundbreaking research – a new system called Positive Intelligence (PQ), founded by Stanford Lecturer Shirzad Chamine – to help support the WILL and the SKILL of healing your marriage. PQ is a synthesis of recent breakthroughs in neuroscience, cognitive and positive psychology, and performance (athletic) science, and has been tested on over 500,000 people in 50 countries. The PQ portion of the bootcamp gives you the insights, motivation, and structure for real, significant change as evidenced by fMRI imaging after just 8 weeks of consistent practice. There is no other work like this that helps you put new insight into action for sustainable change.


WORK ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP: This individual PQ work is coupled with group coaching that addresses your relationship dynamics – communication, conflict, rebuilding trust, feeling heard by your partner, emotional regulation, and more. Groups are women-only and men-only, with a cap of 8 participants per group to ensure personalisation as well as a sense of intimacy as private issues are discussed.

12-week relationship revival bootcamp Investment:

£1,000 GBP for one person ($1,275 USD/ $1,700 CAD)
– savings of £200

3 payments of £400 ($500 USD or $580 CAD)

**Your partner attends for FREE if enrolling at the same time**
Plus
100% risk-free money-back guarantee

Maybe you’re sceptical that you can achieve lasting change in your marriage. I understand. You need to see and feel this bootcamp to believe it. That’s why I offer an iron-clad 30-day guarantee. 

At any time during the first 30 days of the programme simply send me a one-sentence email: Full refund please! And you’ll receive it within five business days. No questions asked.

What you get:

Weekly video training and coaching

  • Weeks 1-6: Pre-recorded weekly 1-hour video trainings

Positive Intelligence founder Shirzad Chamine guides you through experiential exercises that deepen and personalise your understanding of the PQ tools you are learning via the app. 

  • Weeks 7-12: ‘Live Saturdays’ 1-hour video group coaching by Nicole (recorded for those who can’t attend)

Interactive group coaching on Facebook, where the agenda is set in collaboration with you and your cohort of 7 others. We choose a common theme and Nicole will coach one or two people and/or deliver a group exercise, and assign work to move you and your relationship forward.

Exclusive app guiding your 15-min daily practice

Each day a different focus for daily practice is assigned through a personalised companion app available exclusively to programme participants. 

This builds one small ‘muscle’ at a time, laying down new neural pathways to form lasting positive habits of your mind. The cumulative impact by programme’s end is substantial.

Interactive PQ gym

Innovative 10-second PQ Reps build up the muscle that creates new neural pathways, which enable new habitual ways of thinking, feeling, and acting. You learn to be clear-headed and calm even in the midst of great challenges, conflict, and emotion.

Daily progress tracking

The app tracks your daily progress against minimum targets associated with new neural pathway (muscle) formation. Personalised daily coaching tips continue to encourage and challenge you to keep going.

Private PQ community app and open Facebook group with Nicole and your cohort

An active Facebook group is where Nicole addresses common relationship issues and questions and delivers bonus exclusive video training on an ongoing basis. You also receive membership to a private PQ community app with Nicole and your cohort to post questions and reflections on more personal or sensitive issues during the 12 weeks.

100% risk-free money-back guarantee

Maybe you’re sceptical that you can achieve lasting change in your marriage. I understand. You need to see and feel this bootcamp to believe it. That’s why I offer an iron-clad 30-day guarantee.      

At any time during the first 30 days of the programme simply send me a one-sentence email: Full refund please!  And you’ll receive it within five business days. No questions asked. 

£1,000 GBP for one person ($1,500 USD/ $1,750 CAD)
– savings of £200

3 payments of £400 ($500 USD or $580 CAD)

**Your partner attends for FREE if enrolling at the same time**

FAQ’s

No! You’ll create change in your relationship dynamic regardless of whether your partner is doing the same.
Of course, I highly recommend both partners to enrol. That’s why my policy is, and always will be: your partner attends for free if they begin at the same time as you.

The relationship revival bootcamp comes with a 100% risk-free money-back guarantee. At any time during the first 30 days of the programme simply send me a one-sentence email: Full refund please!  And you’ll receive it within five business days. No questions asked. 

We are open and welcoming to people of all faiths and none. The thing to be aware of is that I specialise in working with Christian heterosexual couples, which is reflected in the language of the programme as well as its structure (separate cohort groups for men and women). The content itself (PQ and the tools and techniques taught in the group coaching) is secular – and also aligned with biblical principles. And – I pray regularly for my Christian clients!

In short, if you’re comfortable to join, we’re happy to have you! If you’re not sure, contact me with your questions or for a referral to another specialist coach.

You need an email address, a Facebook account, and a device with an operating system of iOS13+ or Android 6+ for the PQ apps.

Firstly, criticism and judgement are strictly off-limits, so your partner’s good name is safe. One new habit we practice is thinking and speaking about an issue in a way that doesn’t make someone right or wrong, doesn’t place blame, and allows for new ways of thinking about yourself, your partner, and your relationship.

The cohort is designed to spur each other on. Creating a new relationship dynamic; new habitual ways of thinking, feeling, and acting; and new neural circuitry comes with its own resistance (surprise!). We are here to encourage and support each other. It’s a confidential space where you’re welcome to share as much or as little detail as you like. There are common issues faced by many couples, and in addition to the training and coaching provided, you’ll be able to learn from one another in your cohort.

Yes, I’m a wife of 11 years and counting to a wonderful man (that’s him in the photos!), and a mother to a 2.5 year old girl. I practice what I preach (or try my best).

Yes, I take on a limited number of private clients. Contact me for more info.

If you are in the storm and feel you can’t trust your partner or be certain what will happen to your marriage, trust God – His loving-kindness, His power, and His design for marriage.